DIGITAL BOOKS, THOUGHTFUL, EFFORTLESS GIFTS
I’m re-posting my article printed on Dec. 18, 2021.because it’s the gifting season, and this contains an accurate description of each of my books. I had hoped to have more finished to add to the list, but events prevented that his year—hopefully next year…..
Why Digital Books as Gifts
The best thing about digital gifts is the ease of giving-no wrapping, no shipping, no waiting-a couple of clicks and done. They’re also the ideal solution for being remiss, or caught off-guard, or as last minute inspirations leaving no one the wiser. Ever been in a situation when you realize you should have a gift handy- A hosting one perhaps or an unexpected gift you should reciprocate, or be up to the line for an occasion?
Once, I stopped to check on a friend coping with a grandchild recovering from an ear infection. He was a 7 year old boy, no longer sick and very bored. Figuring a Lilly book was worth a try, I sent Making a Cake for Molly to my friend’s email. It kept him occupied for hours and he loved the dessert.
Digital books are truly the gift that keeps giving, because they don’t wear out, but stay forever new. Below are several of my contributions, two of which are available as collections and as separate books. Find them and more books and products at dinnerwithjoy.com. The books described here are also available on Kindle and Dinners With Joy is in printed version on Amazon.
LILLY LIKES TO COOK (SERIES)
My motives in writing the Lilly Likes to Cook series of books were first, my desire to help those coping with kids suffering from ‘the bored blaas’ due to weather, minor illnesses, or empty schedules. Second, I wanted to share what I have found to be an excellent method of getting children to bond both with each other and with adults. Third, I hoped to ease things by offering a selection of tested recipes suitable for the purpose. Learn more detail in my post of July 25, 2019.
I’ve put the recipes into loosely woven story lines which give the books continuity as well as illustrating possible presentations or functions for the finished dishes, so the selection of recipe can fit the situation. They also break down the preparation tasks giving detailed directions, according to age and experience, without being too obvious. The books are digital, available on Kindle and this web site for far less than a cup of coffee. (Book 1 is free onsite-Prices are slightly higher on Kindle)
Lilly is a girl of 8, living with her parents, sister 13 and brother 10. I choose age 8 because 3rd grade is a break-out time. Schools introduce changing classrooms per subject and seasonal sports with regular teams. Social organizations like Scouts and 4-H are encouraged and hobbies are explored to discover special interests or talents.
I usually include Lilly’s sister in her undertakings which widens the age appeal. Her brother, though disinterested himself, has a best friend who is, which introduces a unisex attraction. Lilly develops cooking onto a hobby for the sake of creating a series and because that’s where my experience lies but the books are sold separately and the recipes can be selected according to specific need. They’re also sold in groups of 3, for kids who show an interest or adults who may need them more often.
Lilly first becomes interested in cooking watching her mother transform a cake disaster into a different, beautiful dessert. The creativity and the appearance intrigue her and she wants to make other pretty, tasty things. Then, gradually, she learns the dishes she cooks can serve other uses than filling her spare time. The things she makes can be used for gifts, rewards, fund raisers and more and the process can be shared with others forming friendships, helping out and simply brightening someone’s day. In short, a creative activity, whether it’s a time- filler or becomes a hobby, can teach a lot of life’s lessons.
Resume of the Lilly Likes to Cook books, recipes and utensils needed:
All quantities are in easily divided or multiplied amounts, including the meatball and sauce recipes which are stated as needed for a large event.
Book 1) Making a Cake for Molly:
Lilly’s sister helps her make a cake for her doll’s birthday but it’s a disaster. Mother transforms the flop into a dessert which becomes a family ‘company’ favorite. Molded ice cream cake–Spoons only. Free on site.
Book 2) Cookies for an Uncle Overseas:
Lilly makes cookies as a treat for an uncle in the military. Chocolate-Coconut Macaroons— Spoons, can opener, brief microwaving and baking $1.99
Book 3) Lilly Makes Meringues:
Lilly helps her sister make meringues from their mother’s recipe as an assignment for geography. Spoons, beaters, baking $1.99
Book 4) The Meatball Booth:
Mother is in charge of the booth at the School Fair and needs all the help she can get to prepare the meatballs. To Lilly’s surprise friend of her brother’s offers to help. Knives, spoons, processer and baking $1.99
Book 5) The Luncheon:
Lilly’s mother is busy at work, so Lilly offers to have luncheon ready, with her sister’s help, when their grandmother arrives. Tuscan Tuna-Bean Salad–Can opener and spoons $1.99
Book 6) Dinner for Two:
Lilly’s sister wants permission to begin babysitting. The girls are thrilled when their parents agree to allow them to make dinner and stay alone for an evening. Hot Dog Potato-Vegetable Hot Pot–Spoons, optional knife, baking $1.99
Book 7) Kabobs Are Fun and Easy:
Lilly’s parents are throwing a big cook-out for visiting relatives and everyone pitches in to help prepare Shrimp and Beef Vegetable Kabobs for the grill. Knives, skewers $2.99
Book 8) Girl Scouts Get a Zebra Cake:
Lilly makes a cake ahead, as a reward for her troop members after a day working on crafts to sell at the Town Fair for Charity. Craft directions included. Cake-butter knives; Craft-scissors, pins, rulers and chalk $3.99
Book 9)* Brian’s Birthday:
Lilly helps prepare her brother’s birthday dinner for Brian and his soccer team mates. Slow cooker pulled pork heros plus a variation on the recipe in Book 1.-Spoons, forks, knife,
* To be available soon
For the graduate, newlywed or anyone opening a new page and setting up housekeeping, organizing the kitchen and food supply can be a problem with a major time impact on a busy schedule. Supermarkets can be a scary places, wondering what to choose, how to use it, how much to buy, which brand is the right one for you and the prospect of ‘register shock’ or worse budget deficit looming over your head. This book helps calculate needs before starting to market, and goes with you on your cell to answer your questions while shopping. It makes food preparation in general, easier and fun for both newbies and old hands. Learn more details in my post of May 6. 2021.
This book is comprised of 6 books all available separately on the site’s Bookshelf and Kindle. I decided they would be more convenient for quick reference gathered in one volume naming it Food Facts for Millennials, because they are the ones now starting out on their own and true ‘foodies’. However, the book is a handy reference guide even for us old hands in the kitchen, who need to check facts now and then. It’s even available in mobi, so you can take it to market with you on your phone.
Here is a list of the six digital books, with a summary of the contents of each and prices as listed on this blog and kindle.
Have you ever been confronted by a baking recipe and wondered which product to choose? Ever needed to cook for people with allergies to gluten, wheat, eggs or perhaps are diabetic or have another medical condition? Maybe you wanted to bake something to please a guest from another culture, or just felt like trying a recipe from another cuisine. This book answers any questions about regular ingredients used in baking, helps you understand unfamiliar ones and choose the right options if necessary. It also offers various uses for different ingredients and suggests ways to use the remainder of any exotic ones you may buy for a special purpose before expiration. ($2.99)
This book discusses modern changes in breeding methods; why we’re assured of tender birds and the “stewing” chicken and capon are obsolete. It explains the differences in terms between generic, brand-name birds as found in the supermarket, free-range and organically raised. There is complete information ion Salmonella and how to avoid it. This advice extends to a section on the safe handling and use of eggs, and another section on reasons to clean and brine all poultry. There are detailed instructions on preparing all types of birds for cooking. Listed are descriptions of all domestic fowl and the most universal of game birds, along with several recipes for each. Also included are time and temperature charts for general knowledge and detailed instructions for carving and serving each type of bird. Nothing is left to chance. ($3.99)
This book is a “Cliff Notes” on sauces and gravies. It starts by defining the differences between the two and goes on to explain the various ways to thicken them for serving, examining the different ingredients that can be used and giving recipes and directions to do so . It describes the different types of gravy and gives directions on how to make each from scratch as well as shortcuts. Outlined are ALL the different types of sauces and their uses from salads to meats to desserts and gives step-by-step advice on how to make and use each. Special attention is given to the 5 Classic French “Mother” sauces—the ones found on menus not in packages. Each is described in detail and instructions given for making and using them, as well as for the many varied second and third generation sauces they inspire.
As the way sauces evolve is explained, it becomes clear they can be adapted to fit dietary requirements, be they medical, religious or cosmetic. This leads to explaining how simple it is to create shortcuts for the inexperienced or rushed as well as how easy it is to individualize them. Recipes illustrating the different types and applications of sauces are included along the way and tips to DIY sauces at will. ($3.99)
4) HOW TO CONTROL CARBOHYDRATES – SO THEY DON’T GO TO WAIST
Take the “Black Hat” off carbohydrates and learn how to use them to your advantage. In this book you will learn the difference between simple and complex carbohydrates, how each works and why complex ones are so important to a healthy diet. You will see that it’s virtually impossible to cut carbs out of your diet completely, because they exist to some degree in almost all foods. The trick in avoiding the damage they can do to your waistline is in knowing which ones, and how many you need daily. The major source groups are explained in detail and broken down into types as are the “hidden” groups so often overlooked. It’s important to know which is which and how to combine them to your advantage. For example, a baked potato with sour cream constitutes a balanced meal, do you know why? There are cooking tips and some suggestions for uses and recipes included as well. ($2.99) For more details see the posting for Feb.11, 2021
As seafood becomes increasingly valued as a healthy food source, and thanks to the growth of aqua farming and improved transport, ever more varieties are available to and being consumed by an increasing number of people. Questions naturally arise concerning the buying, prepping, storing and cooking of the different types of seafood and actually as to the types and classifications of the items themselves. This book addresses many of those questions by explaining the general rules for safe handling fish and other forms of seafood; cleaning, skinning, shelling or shucking; proper storage until cooking. There are definitions of each classification of seafood in general and descriptions of the members of each category and specifically of the species within each one listed. There are guidelines as to proportions to buy and suggestions as to substitutions within species. Included is also a section on the serving of canned fish. ($2.99) For more details about this book see the posting for August 12, 2021.
Years ago the family neighborhood butcher knew the customers’ preferences and often anticipated their needs. Now we’re on our own and have to be a lot better informed as to what we’re buying in every way. Anyone who has peered into the supermarket meat counters realize there are decisions to be made over and above which meat to choose. We have to know the cut or cuts to use for the dishes we plan, how to pick the right one and which is the best buy. We need to judge color, grain, fat dispersion, often bone mass and general appearance. Moreover, we have to know what to substitute if we can’t find what we want. For this we have to know how to prepare and cook different cuts, even different meats. This book contains charts on beef, pork, lamb and veal advising which cuts are more tender, which are tougher, which are fattier and why. Then there are additional charts telling how to cook, carve and serve them. The book is a great guide to learning about meats and a great kitchen aid. ($3.99)
FOOD FACTS FOR MILLENNIALS – The collection ($ 17.94) in both epub and mobi.
CAN I help?
Most people now understand cooking can be interesting, challenging and fun with terrific rewards and that having a few kitchen skills and basic recipes is a survival necessity. However, cooking together is a great bonding tool between two or more people, not to mention the ability to enjoy any cuisine you wish when you wish. So if you’re heading to the kitchen and hear the question: Can I help? Answer….YES!
These modified recipes were originally devised to ease stress for those who cook with children in the kitchen and to include safe work for little hands. Then the book proved to be able to do much more. It’s a good guide for the novice or the pinch-hitter, under stress to produce an adult-pleasing meal in a strange environment. It can act as a training manual to learn basic skills for anyone starting, or planning to start out on their own or illustrate ways to simplify your favorite recipes for easier access. Learn more detail about this book in my posting for June 3, 2021.
The recipes in Can I help? are divided into four groups, breakfast, lunch, dinner and dessert. The linked post mentioned above includes several recipes from each group to show how they can be both ‘company presentable’ and easy to make. With each category heading below I list menu items for the same reason.
Breakfast:
Include Eggs Parmesan, Yogurt with Bananas and Nuts, Eggs Florentine, Easy Home-Made Cinnamon Buns, Oven Pancake and Melon Boats
Lunch:
Some options are Strata Burgers, Tuna and Bean Salad, Turkey Mousse, Monte Cristo Sandwiches, Classic Quiche, and Gazpacho-Pasta Salad
Dinner:
Among the choices are: Chicken with Mustard and Honey, Double Punch Lasagna Roll-Ups, My Beef Kabobs, Chicken with Cherries, Pork (or Turkey) Loin with Apricot Glaze and Salad Nicoise. These recipes point out specific tasks for children.
Dessert:
This shows the variety. Some choices in the book are Fruit Pizza, Chocolate No-Cook Bars, Cherry Cobbler, Chocolate Raspberry Cake, Easy Berry Angle Cake, Dump Cake and Fruit Gelati.
This Menu-Cookbook is truly unique and a welcome gift for a wide range of people. It is a tool, for busy people who like good food but have limited time to shop and cook by providing a ready answer for that nagging question at the end of a long day; “What’s for dinner?” and teaching by example how to avoid that stressful dilemma permanently. The basic difference with this cookbook is that it’s based on a professional chef’s approach to menu planning. Twelve weeks of healthy, balanced entrées, with side recipe suggestions, are arranged in three monthly groups. Learn more details about this book on my posting for Dec.22, 2020.
Each weekly menu listing is accompanied by cooking tips covering everything from specific directions to general information like freezing raw and cooked foods, a dessert recipe, and most importantly a detailed shopping list complete with pantry check. Used as learning tools the lists in the book illustrate how to effortless it can be to provision a week’s meals. One can simply pull up a week’s list, optionally cross off ingredients of a recipe they don’t want or substitute those of one they do, and head to, or call it in to the store or virtual shopper. Learning how to compile a weekly shopping list is the key to relieving the stress of meal planning.
Nutritional, restaurant quality recipes have been modified, including easily divisible and multiplied quantities, for advanced prep and quick cooking. Moreover, the introduction contains information on fats, carbohydrates, choosing and using poultry, meats and seafood as well as making gravies and sauces and their various uses from dips to desserts. This facilitates planning and shopping.
The weekly entrees themselves are varied; a poultry, a pork, a beef, a seafood, an ethnic dish, a casserole and a fun meal. They are presented in the same sequence only to simplify editing. They can be switched or replaced as desired and several notated recipes can be prepared ahead.
Also included are suitable suggestions for restricted diets where indicated, mainly for the pork, ham and shellfish recipes.
Dinners With Joy is available on this site’s Books/Products section, on Amazon in paperback and Kindle in digital form as well as our Etsy shop, Dinner With Joy, at its current price of $14.99.
Weekly Menu Sample
Month 1, Week 1
1.Chicken in Lemon Wine Sauce
Baked Sweet Potatoes
Sugar Snap Peas
2. Pork Tangier
Spinach Orange Salad
3. Steak in Red Wine
Broccoli Crowns
Broiled Irish Potatoes
4. Salmon in Lemon-Caper Sauce
Zucchini Medley
Roasted Baby Carrots
5. Glamorous Ham Casserole
Caesar Salad
6. Double-Punch Lasagna Roll-Ups
Italian Green Beans
Bread Sticks
7. Classic Fajitas
8. Apple Rustica
SAMPLE SHOPPING LIST
1) This is a complete list of all the ingredients needed to make 4 servings of every entree and side on this week’s menu. The quantities are in even amounts for easy multiplication or division to fit your household requirements.
2) If you want to delete a recipe and/or substitute another, simply remove the ingredients for that recipe and add the new ones-in proper quantity. The list is still your tool.
3) The Pantry Check items are considered basic kitchen supplies, kept in amounts intended for multiple uses. The quantities needed each week are given in the recipes. Make note of them when checking the pantry to learn if an item needs to be restocked.
4) This list is a valuable time and money saving tool. Learn to use it and it will reward you well.
MONTH 01 / WEEK 01
Cooking Tips
A word before I begin this, our first list. As I stated in the introduction, I’ll try not to request too many pantry items at once or be exotic in the things I use, but I do want to help you build a basic pantry, so that very soon you’ll automatically know you have most of the things on each week’s list and shorten your shopping time. For example, every week, I will mention flour, salt and pepper. They are basic, as are sugar and some herbs and spices. I will also be listing other items that you may want to consider in the “staples” category to make your life easier, fresh onions, rice, eggs, butter, cooking and salad oils, bread crumbs and wines are in this group. So buy with an eye to the future. I like to use bouillon powder. It can add a lot of taste, with minimum effort, but brands vary greatly in sodium content. Boxed packets seem to contain less than the bottled granules, offer a low-sodium option, stay fresh longer, and the pre-measured amounts are easier to control. So I prefer them, but if you want to adjust the recipe amount higher according to taste, you can, just restrict the salt. Never use cubes. They don’t dissolve well, nor do they impart the flavor.
PANTRY CHECK
White wine – – suggestion dry vermouth
Dry red wine
Cream sherry
Flour – all-purpose*
Beef and chicken bouillon granule packets, NOT cubes
Salt and pepper
Lemon pepper
Garlic powder-not garlic salt
Paprika
Dried parsley
Curry powder
Cumin powder
Coriander powder
Ginger powder
Nutmeg- grated
Dried Oregano
Dried basil
Dried thyme
Cooking oil
Salad oil
Bread crumbs- flavored or regular
Worcestershire sauce
Dijon or Spicy brown mustard
Cinnamon
MARKET
GROCERIES
(1) 2oz jar of capers
1 box lasagna noodles
(1)4 oz. can mushrooms-stems& pieces
½ cup raisins
1 box couscous—garlic or pine nuts
(8) 8 inch flour tortillas
(2) 8 oz. cans tomato sauce
(1) 14 oz. can diced tomatoes
2 cups packaged pre-cooked white rice
(1) pkg. Crisco quarters
Parchment paper
MEATS
4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
11/2 lb. boneless lean pork for cubing
(4) 5oz beef tenderloin steaks
(4) 5oz salmon fillets
(3) ¼ lb. slices cooked ham
1 lb. ground turkey
2 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
OR 12 oz. beef steak
PRODUCE
3 lb. bag of onions
1 lb. bag peeled baby carrots
1 bunch celery
1 bulb garlic or 1 jar chopped
2 lemons
8 oz. sliced button mushrooms
2 plum tomatoes
2 green bell peppers
1 red bell pepper
1 orange
Fresh ginger root – small piece
1 bunch fresh parsley
1 ½ lbs. apples + 1 apple
DAIRY
24 oz. sour cream
4 oz. wedge parmesan cheese
8 oz. shredded Mexican cheese blend
1 quart milk
1 cup light cream or ½ & ½
½ lb. butter
Dozen eggs- 2 this week rest next
8 oz. guacamole
4 oz. Monterey Jack cheese
OPTIONAL SIDES
(2) 14oz cans small whole white potatoes
4 sweet potatoes
(1) 12 oz. bag baby spinach leaves
1 lb. fresh or (1) 10 oz. box frozen sweet pea pods
2 large crowns of fresh broccoli
(1) 12 oz. bag baby greens
(1) 12 oz. bag romaine lettuce – or 1lb head
1 lbs. fresh zucchini
1 10 oz. package frozen Italian green beans
1 box bread sticks- – look for the thin ones called grissini
Choices of salad dressings- – if needed
How to Control Food Bills
This book offers a way to manage food costs. As a personal chef service owner I had to offer unlimited recipes, quote reasonable prices, guarantee quality, buy retail and still meet my bottom line-not easy ! After trial and error I devised an efficient system that worked for the business and proved to be equally efficient for my personal needs. I call my plan The Diet for the Food Dollar and to test it, I shared it with friends who’ve had equal success for several years now. It will work for you through the years ahead.
This is NOT about clipping coupons, chasing sales or finding discount markets. This system is based on organized planning and informed shopping, and teaches how to cope with consistently rising food costs. The estimated price hike for the foreseeable future is at least 5%-7% annually. Without oversight your menu standards and nutritional wellbeing will suffer.
The reason for this expected price hike is that over the past thirty years, the U.S. Government has ceded control of the nation’s food supply to ‘private interests’, actually international conglomerates. Whereas a government has to consider the welfare of its citizens, corporations are interested in profit. The international aspect means that the fluctuations of one nation’s economy won’t affect pricing. A product
can always be sold elsewhere. Anyone wondering how this situation came about, see the footnote on Jan.14, 2021. My plan is just 3 steps of behavioral management which experts claim can become habit in three weeks and proves a welcome time-saver. I summarize each step below conveying the general principles.
It’s important today but going to be increasingly more so, to know where your food money is going and catch any ‘leaks’ or excesses. Organization is the best way to solve that problem. It’s also important, and more convenient to be an informed food shopper. Know what to buy, where to get it, how much and, here’s an often overlooked factor, when to buy an item. Stockpiling is expensive and wasteful but being able to gauge the market is a huge asset. The 3 steps of the plan, summarized below, teach how to control food expenses and deal with prices through organization and knowledge. Veterans of the plan report that it repaid its $8.99 price well before the 3-week habit-forming deadline and really works long-term for them, as it will for you. So eliminate the stress, avoid register shock and make meal planning and food shopping permanently a walk in the park….
The book also has over 100 pages of charts, diagrams and graphs full of great information. There’s buying information on all meats, poultry and seafood, locations of the different cuts and how to choose and use them, carving directions, descriptions of cheeses, oils and herbs a complete listing of ingredient substitutions and much, much more. These pages are a valuable kitchen tool in themselves.
DIET FOR THE FOOD DOLLAR BASIC STEPS
1) Be Decisive:
Don’t hesitate, press “Go” As with any diet, the first step is to set a realistic, obtainable, initial goal. Start by calculating how much your food budget can be slimmed down and still remain nutritious. Whether you do this by percentage, fraction or dollars and cents doesn’t matter, just get a firm concept. I prefer to figure by month because it represents purchases from every department in the supermarket, all of which usually fall into the “Grocery Shopping” category.
Then, decide which areas are the target ones. Take a look in your pantry, cabinets and refrigerator. Examine expiration dates. What sits on the shelf? What do you most frequently have to throw out? What was bought and never used? What is duplicated? What name brands can be automatically be replaced by generics? The answers will show you the initial steps to changing your shopping habits. 2) Be Determined:
Once you have a goal in mind, and an idea of how to get there, it takes resolve to turn that path into a paved highway. To help you stay on the road, some “tools” may come in handy.
1) Remind yourself of the satisfaction from realizing you got everything you need and spent less than you contemplated.
2) Cultivate a warning voice (my “Just say no!”) that stops you before you buy impulsively, and becomes as habitual. Behaviorists say that a habit is formed in three weeks, and becomes ingrained in six months
3) If tempted, continue shopping. If that item is still beckons at checkout back consider fitting it into your meal plan in the next two weeks, and if its cost won’t arouse guilt when home. All this pondering alone is often enough to discourage the sale.
4) The best tool of all: The List. Always compile meticulous, detailed lists when planning and shopping. Never operate on impulse, attractive produce, a special piece of meat, a new product, a new ingredient. This leads to overbuying and stockpiling.
Once a weekly menu is set, it’s easy to list the ingredients, simplest done by categories—meat, dairy etc.–check them against your current supplies; eliminate the ones you have and Voilà! Your list is done. The extra time it takes to compile a list is equal to the reduced time spent in the market, but don’t allow yourself to linger there. Get in –Get out!
3) Be Disciplined:
This is the hardest step because it requires ongoing effort. You are decisive and determined; all that’s needed is willpower. Above all, stick to the list! A big incentive is to remind yourself of why you started the diet, and how satisfying it will be to reach your goal.
In addition to using the tools mentioned above, I find putting things in perspective helps. Unless it’s a special event, ask yourself if you’re going to remember what you ate on a day, or even in that week, two weeks later. (The answer to that question is a big “No”.) BUT if selecting just one or maybe two WOW items and they fit the budget, preparing them to create a special seeming dinner, is appreciated whether by you alone or your family.
Diversification and innovation also help, especially if the budget isn’t ‘splurge friendly’. When you feel the urge to tweak a week’s menus, explore new cuisines, or different ways to cook, using seasonings, or making sauces from ingredients you already have, or ones that you can add that will serve you well in the future. Concentrating on a recipe stops the gaze from wandering over the market shelves too.
I’ve heard it said that anything can be accomplished with the right plan. Well, if you want to have control over food expenses, avoid stress and eliminate register shock forever, The Diet for the Food Dollar Plan is for you! Find it here on this site’s books/products page or on Kindle.
